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Communication is an important part of our life. And have you ever been in such situation, when you go along with a pretty girl, you are talking about common interests but then suddenly a blundering pause frowns. Is it close to you? Maybe you are shy and not able to begin a really interesting talk? Don’t feel embarrassed. All people have been in such situations, but here we can help you to avoid them. There are some advices that will help you to be more confident and to keep ball rolling in every case. So, let’s begin.
First, talk simply about her life, her interests, tell about yours and all in all try to learn each other better. Ask questions about her and you’ll see that the talking will go easily. You will trust each other after learning different details of your lives.
Also, you shouldn’t be banal. What does it mean? You shouldn’t talk only about work or weather. Otherwise you will make your companion boring. So, try to chose different themes and change them as often as you can. It seems to be a trifle, but believe our experience, exactly trifles influence the whole impression.
Then, you must remember one detail that girls like perceptible talks and men prefer to lean on logic facts. It isn’t right. You should tell anything in the way which the girl like. For example, if you spent holidays somewhere abroad, tell how pleasant it was to lay on the beach, how hot the sun was and so on, stressing your own feelings and not only the facts that you have been there.
Ask as many questions as you can especially if they require a full answer. They may be banal, but there are thousands of them, for example: what is your happiest day of the life? Or, where did you spend last summer?
Be ready to tell at least four or five funny stories from your life. Sense of humor always attracts people. If you don’t have any, you can make them up, but it is important to remember about it and not to be “pricked”.
Try to collect beforehand about ten themes interesting for you and insert them in the talk. It can be music, cinema, sport, etc. Especially good if you understand in this or that sphere and can tell something special about it as a professional, if you are a musician or a sportsman. If you have a common hobby it can become the main reason for your close relationships in future.
You can show how dreamy you can be. Tell what you would do if you had a million of dollars or an island. Also ask the girl what she would do if you could execute her every wish. This task is rather easy but helps to become closer.
Then you can talk about sex but only in case when there is much trust between you. Here you can ask about her preferences or ask, if she would like to be a man and why. Nevertheless, be careful with it, not every woman is ready to talk about it even with a good friend.
Another good method of communication is playing games. You can choose any, for example: “only truth”. You ask each other questions and the answers must be truthful. Soon you may touch the intimate questions, so you will be able to know maximum about your companion. There are different interesting games and they help to avoid stupid pauses.
If these methods are still difficult for you, use psychological games for yourself, learn to be commutative and open for new friends.
And, of course, the main advice that can be here: be interesting for yourself. Find an interesting job, an interesting hobby (not a single maybe), visit as much interesting places as you can, don’t be afraid of learning more and then you will always have a theme to talk about.
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