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ONLINE DATING - TRUST, BUT CHECK |
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Would you like to get acquainted with a good man? Well, it’s not a problem. Every person has a thousand opportunities to do it. But, taking into consideration nowadays courses, more and more people use Internet not only for meeting new friends, but also for supporting friendship with old ones. Some people think that those who use Internet are crazy as virtualness can’t replace real life. But do we mean to replace it? Even don’t. Nowadays technologies just give us an opportunity to diversify our life. For example, you are not commutative, but you also a man and you have your own problems. So, you look for another man, who is like you and tell him about the questions that bother you. You don’t know him or her and he/she doesn’t know you. In this situation it is always easier to open you soul to a stranger and forget about it. Maybe he or she will forget either, but you will be better. And some cases are known when virtual friendship grows up into a real one. And one more good friend won’t be superfluous, isn’t it? It is only one advantage of Internet communication. You want to know more? Don’t confuse, just visit our sites and you’ll see everything with your own eyes.
There are thousands of dating sites in the internet. So, how can women check if she’s deceived or not? So, we can give some advice how not to be cheated by a swindler. First of all, if you talk to a foreigner, be ready that he can be married. But it is easy to check. Don’t give them your e-mail addresses at once, try to learn him better, ask his home telephone number or home address as if you want to call him (to send a card). As usual, married men stop writing you at once.
Then, there is a category of men who are constantly lying. But here you can also know it. Such people can say that they are very rich, that he’s a president of a company or something like that. Don’t worry and don’t hurry to see him. It may turn out that he cheated you either. What can you do? Ask him as many questions as you can, someday he will make a mistake. If he says that works as a famous doctor or a politician. Try to get as much information in this sphere as you can, so you will be able to catch you companion when he tells lies. And if he doesn’t answer you systematically, delete him!
There’s an example, when a young girl from Ukraine talked to a new foreign admirer. He told that he’s a lawyer. So she decided to learn more about the differences in Russian and American legislation and asked him about it. One good point was that he didn’t lie, and also he liked that she’s so clever. So, remember: trust, but check.
And, at last, the most dangerous category of internet-fiances – those who are expecting to get an obedient Russian wife. They think that she will be like a maid for him. Be careful! Ask this man why he chose exactly you. Usually foreign men answer that they liked you and don’t care where you are from. In this case everything is all right. But if he says, those women from other countries are wicked and mercenary, and Russian women are so heartfelt and prefer traditional domestic values, it can mean only one thing: this foreigner looks for an uncomplaining maid that he can dominate. Such men think that it is easier to dominate a Russian wife than English, German or any other one. It is awful that you can get to them!
So, dear women, don’t fell in love at once, first try to know the man writing or calling to him. Don’t give him your numbers or other contacts before you begin trusting him. Remember one good proverb: the longest way round is the shortest way home.
Well, another important point in the acquaintance with a foreigner is sex. If you’ve been writing to a man for a long time, trust him, so it’s time to have a dating. It’s better for you, if this dating takes place in Russia, here you will be in safety. But if he insists on the meeting somewhere in Europe, ask him to pay for the tout, for the hotel, to buy two-way tickets. Don’t imperil yourself to “work off” your return ticket. Even if your tickets and hotel are paid, you don’t have to repay with “nature”. You can refuse your partner even if you had already have sex with him. Foreign men understand the word “no” at once. There even a wife can appeal to the court for a raping. There was one history, when a girl from Russia who came to her boyfriend in Cyprus. And after she had sex with him once, she thought, she was obligatory to do it the rest 7 days though she didn’t like it. But it isn’t so. So, don’t be afraid.
But, if you liked each other, if you are even talking about marriage, it is even worth checking his “valour”. Because it is better to do it now than having surprises after wedding. And if your partner avoids sex after you had serious relationships, it is a good reason to get guarded. There was one case, when young girl got acquainted with a young man from Miami. They liked each other, were friends for a long time, he had serious intentions, was well-off, they had much in common, but there was one problem – she had never seen his photo. On all her questions he answered, that he either had sent it, but it got lost, either that he had no scanner to scan a photo or something like that. And when, at last he came to Russia as her fiance, to marry her, there was a surprise for her: it turned out that he’s a man about sixty. And not handsome at all. So, in every case you should ask for a photo. Sometimes this or that man can’t show his photograph on sites in order not to compromise himself (if he’s a director of a firm, for example). In this situation you can ask to send a photo to your e-mail. Then you will feel much more comfortable and confidently in building further relationships, when you don’t have any doubts about your friend.
But in every case don’t trust first foreigner that you liked! Check your relationships by time, while talking to him. And only after it give your contacts and meet. Have a luck in love!
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